I have had a run in with a few personal trainers and I find them to be very useful, even if I am not using their services. I see them as a light to the dark public when they have no where to turn when they have run into a blockade in their search for a healthier lifestyle. However, just like all other practices and disciplines there are good ones, mediocre ones, and just flat out bad ones. Unfortunately I have ran into a really bad one at this gym I wish to join, thing is the bad trainer owns the gym.
I am asking for your input or views on this incident because to me this guy is a waste of human resources and time. I *stupidly* ask if he had a weighted vest seeing as how it is both a weight gym and MMA gym, he says no, I turn to walk away then he stops me.
"What do you want a weighted vest for?"; "Bulgarian splits sir"; "What are you doing those for bro?"; "Parkour conditioning sir, just trying to get my lower body stronger and general strength all around, that's why am here."
He ever so boss-like says "Nah bro, come into my office here stop this *shuts off treadmill* you don't need that shit man."
I walk in, he sits me down.
"So what the fuck are you looking for bro? Why are you here?"
I say how I am trying to condition for parkour, how I want to be efficient, and I am not looking to get big. The man goes off on some tangent of how fat he was, curses some more, tells me how he has #1!!!! trainers in his gym, how he trains #1 UFC fighters, how he can get me even bigger, how I should stop and just go into Jiu Jitsu, curses some more. I try to tell him what I want he then says:
"Yea you have already told me what you want 5 times already, you're wasting my fucking time bro, that shit of low reps with bigger weight is shit that died in the 80's bro, you don't know what you want man."
He turns to a friend of mine who came in the office with me and started talking to him about Jiu Jitsu based on his size and previous experience. This made me realize that; shit I don't know anything, I need to re-think my whole approach to everything. So I ask you now if you have any links, nutritional, physical, or even spiritual articles that you have used please send them to me. I want to learn all that I can in the facet of self efficiency.
This guy is now my inspiration for learning all the ways that I can, so I cannot be so narrow minded on just one practice.






